Why are we born if we have to die?
That question makes it sound as if the two were the only things happening to us.
Maybe the answer lies in not just looking at those two verbs in isolation, but rather in what else goes on with us.
Unfortunately, we don’t seem to be satisfied by things we don’t know for sure. We don’t know what happened before we were born, or what happens after we die.
So either we speculate about it and content ourselves with what we believe, or we give up on that and just concentrate on making the period between being born and dying filled with meaning for us, the most enjoyable time.
So let’s create a simple equation, ready B (C + C) D = L meaning “you are born then you make (choices and changes) before you die equals life.
We born at the time, place and situation we need or the world need then we live life making choices and changes all the time before we die and that my friends is life in the physical term.
What is life’s greatest gift?
It is free will or choice.
Choice is the ability to select one course of action from a set of alternatives to achieve a goal.
Life is not static, it is a flow. Every choice we make leads us closer to or further from our goals. We constantly need to monitor where we are on our journey.
We need to ask questions: Am I moving closer to my goals? If not, what corrective measures can I take? What action will I take now to realign myself with my goals?
Choice is power. Choice is at the heart of life; it is the creative power of life.
Choose intelligence. Not every decision we make is a moral choice.
Decide what you CAN do, not what you WANT to do. Our wants are insatiable.
Choose to live with hope, rather than despair. Don’t be a dope. Learn to cope. Live with hope.
We cannot choose what will happen TO us, but we can choose what happens IN us.
When we act out of habit rather than conscious choice, the path were traveling on is a rut, perhaps even a slippery slope. If we don’t want to end up at the wrong place, we have to be awake. We have to be aware and make our choices consciously.
The choices and changes that we make in our life, reflect the person that we are. Some choices are more important than others, and they require a considerable amount of thought. Making the right choice or decision changes your life in the right direction.
Making a choice is an act of exercising your freedom to change your life and to be who you can be. Freedom always brings with it responsibilities. We need to remember that when we make a choice, we become responsible for our actions or behavior.
The first step to success is taking responsibility for our actions. We need to make choices and changes to freely decide on our path of growth.
You have choices all the time, change will happen whether you have consciously thought about it or not, but your growth can be slow or fast depends on your choices.
There is nothing called death in the spiritual sense only in the physical….we just changing forms….everything is energy in this world…like when our dresses are worn off after some time and we have to change them…the same way our bodies when it worn out or tears down it is allowed to go and mix with nature and life forces go and join the universal force…simple!
We die when our task, reason to be here or the love or hate we gave is complete or perfect for others, even if others or we can’t understand it. We are present in that little part and moment in life and universe and as nature is perfect, our existence is perfect too.
Every year has a spring and winter and we are the same… Some of us are here to teach, to learn, to enjoy, to suffer; some to be remembered for big accomplishments or for little, some of us will stay forever alive in the memory of a homeless we gave a coin or a glass of water… or we will stay alive in the memory of our children and in stories that our family keeps telling the next generations… even if it is just how we used to be when we smiled or how it was our particular way of living life.
So again to quickly recap, you are born into this world with a mission or a theme, in the process you will make daily choices that will also require changes all before you die. When you look life with the above simple equation, you should enjoy the journey, knowing that you are in control of your choices and changes that will allow you as an individual to grow and share while on this physical earth.
That being said…make your life a meaningful one, challenge yourself every time, do not fall in the mediocrity of many and accept thing in a status quo or this is the way things are. Take courage make the tough choices and the right changes, be the difference always.
To your success…Life Coach Lionel Sanabria
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