Harmony is about balancing life in tough situations.
Harmony is just literally being a pleasant person to deal with no matter what is happening around you. That is correct, no matter what. Harmony is about balancing life in tough situations. The dictionary defines harmony as accord, agreement, peace, amity, amicability, friendship, cooperation, unity, and rapport. The list could actually go on and on, and those are just the starting points.
We live in a day and age where this is difficult. We live even right now in a political climate that makes it sometimes feel like harmony is impossible. No matter who you support politically, you can’t support one candidate right now without getting in trouble from someone that supports the other. This is not harmony.
And the truth? The truth is that a country that lacks harmony and balance will always be a country divided, well past the election. Can’t we all get along?
Which one do you want…harmony or drama?
This is not just true with politics. It’s true in the many different areas of daily life. The moment you step out the door for the day or speak to a human being online or on the phone, you activate a chain reaction of your own personal choices. What will you engage in? Harmony? Or, drama?
It isn’t easy. I do know this to be true. It’s an active choice that we each must make every day. When you are confronted with a person or experience that throws the equilibrium of a situation off balance, you have three choices.
1.) Engage the drama.
2.) Ignore the problem and hope it goes away.
3.) I love them anyway. What choice will you make?
Ignoring the ugly is a good option, and sometimes the only one. Sometimes by loving them, you will tip the scales. This is what Deepak Chopra teaches all the time. He says our days are happier when we give people a little piece of hearts rather than a piece of our minds.
Harmoniously balancing our lives in our modern world, it’s not easy, and I should know. Furthermore, in this world, we are tested every day, more than we would like. But when you give someone a piece of your heart in those situations, you tip the scales of justice, and harmony, in your favor. Now there’s more love and cooperation there than there was before the situation started.
And it’s all because of you. Not only will you get closer to harmony, but you will also have more peace of mind than less, pieces of your mind.
So what piece of your Self are you going to give next time you are given the test?
Just remember, harmony is a good thing. But today, some people overuse the word “harmony” the same as the word “abundance,” it can be overused, or even inappropriately or incorrectly used. It’s an easy word to “throw out there” when you want to say something nice. And saying the word harmony is nice. It feels good. It feels like you’re on the right path.
But, achieving and feeling harmony is far sweeter. And you can’t do that unless you actually know what it means and actually feel harmony within yourself first.
By being balanced, fair, just, and honest, you have a better chance of living harmoniously. If you dislike drama, you should run from it at all and at any cost. If you master only one trait in this world before your exit from this plane, let it be harmony.
Because harmony is a beautiful thing and literally trumps everything else all the time.
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