Monthly Archives: July 2015


Falling in Love or out of Love

What is more exciting and exhilarating than falling in love? Is there anything? Sadly, though, many of us have learned that it is just as easy falling in love or out of love, and while finding love and affection is one of our greatest personal needs, why is it that so many fail to stay in love? Why? Anyone? Falling in love can be the start of a loving relationship, but lasting relationships don’t just happen,they must be cultivated to grow. In many ways nurturing a relationship is like tending a garden. Neglect it,weeds will grow and it dies just […]

Falling out of Love

Focus Your Feelings and not Goals

Over time for people that read and seek information to improve themselves, you may have come across with the saying that achieving our goals does not give us lasting happiness. Working towards and achieving goals is the pursuit of happiness so they say. As you may have experienced, eventually the euphoria wears off and then we’re back where we were before. What will give you happiness is learning to deal confidently with difficult situations, feelings and emotions from moment to moment. Focus your feelings and not goals. That’s not to say we shouldn’t have goals. Like you, I’m a coach […]